Women are a really important part of my life. Up until a few years ago, they were nearly the only comrades I had. These days I like to believe I have a pretty healthy balance of male-to-female friends... Something like 85-15. Formerly, it was more like 5-95.
Being an extremist, I do the all-or-nothing really naturally... Don't even think about it. There were times when I decided I shouldn't have any lady friends. No good. I rely on women for a fundamental perspective on my life, my choices, and dating, among other things...
The fact is, I can easily lose my sensitivity, and get way too cold and "manly". I need to be around ladies to keep in touch with my own lightness, my intuition, my gentleness. It's okay to be a whole lot of things, and not just "man".
I'm realizing that this is probably a pretty stupid entry - please forgive. Kind of in a rush tonight.
In closing, my women friends rock. These days, I have 7 or 9 really close women friends, and they know who they are, because I tell them. Love you grrrrlzz!
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